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Friday, May 08, 2009
A Special Bicycle
Someone stole my boy’s bike.
Fortunately, a friend has loaned us one until we buy another, but that bike! I bought it when Dane was 2 – the future rider he’d become, just a pedaling speck in my mind.
That bike inspired a 5-year-old’s self-reliance that would’ve made Emerson proud.
All summer long, we rode, first in circles around the playground; then, into Sausalito or along the Bay Trail between Marin City and Mill Valley.
We put in about 15 miles a week on that bike –– Dane zigzagging along the Bay Trail and me easing my own bike behind him, his 4-year-old sister attached to me on her trail-a-bike.
At first, Dane’s zigzags made my hair stand on end as serious cyclists zoomed by. Eventually, though, he learned to use the right side of the trail, and I watched him more calmly from behind.
Soon he was off-road, standing up to test his tires in the mud, raising a daring hand to point out the great white heron or snowy egret at water’s edge.
Come August, he even advanced to the hilly 5-mile perimeter of Angel Island, working in 100-degree weather with the determination of a yellow jersey rider on the Tour de France.
Now we ride to school. Not many students do this regularly, so, when he pulls his helmet off, his hair sweaty and sticking up, his fellow kindergarteners are incredulous, “You rode again, Dane?” And he smiles shyly with a proud sense of himself.
But riding isn’t about attention; Dane loves what riding feels like. When his sister says, “Let’s go feel the wind on our arms,” we all know what she means.
Let’s just get out and move ourselves along. Let’s pick warm blackberries in September and brush rain off our faces in January. Let’s pedal up steep hills, gasping for air, or speed through puddles, soaking our socks. Let’s have an adventure.
That’s what that bike represented: a boy gaining a sense of himself and a sense of adventure, powered by his own two legs.
I knew that bike wouldn’t last forever, and that Dane would eventually need a bigger one, and that someday he’d ride without me. But that bike marked the beginning of a way of life that extends beyond cars and exhaust, into adventure and self-reliance, and it served as the vehicle for me to witness it.
Boy, I’ll miss that bike.
But, Bike, thanks for that boy.
By Anjie Reynolds Stumble This Post
Anjie- Thank you for allowing me a glimpse into your family's lives! I am inspired to go have an adventure with my kids today. Thanks.
This is such a descriptive story and it's odd to say I can feel the wind on my arms just by reading it, but I can. Love it Anjie!
Love the pictures you painted with your words, Anjie. You're a super mom who inspires me to be better! Thanks!Post a Comment